Terence Thong

Dear Godpa, we had a special bond. We share the same birthday and every year I look forward to wishing someone who brought so much warmth, joy and laughter into the lives of others. It’s hard to imagine that now, I will celebrate our special day with an angel in heaven. Thank you for the love, kindness, and beautiful memories you gave us. You will be deeply missed.

Uncle Terry and Auntie Theresa would visit us in Klebang multiple times a year. No special occasion. I always looked forward to their visits. The adults would sit and chit-chat for hours—sometimes I wondered how they could possibly have so much to talk about. Then we kids would be tasked to get something for tea (or Nescafe, in Uncle’s case). We’d ride our bicycles down to the beach to buy putu piring, and then the adults would adjourn to the kitchen for tea and even more talking. Just simple day visits... my fondest memory. ❤️

Uncle Terry oozed Thoughtfulness and creativity- this was a gift he presented for our wedding.. A hint to our partners if we were in a good mood or not :)

In Loving Memory of Uncle Terry Some people enter our lives quietly, but leave behind a love and kindness so deep that their absence is felt profoundly. Uncle Terry was one of those people. Over the years, we exchanged greetings, little check-ins, encouragements, and moments of warmth that carried more meaning than words can fully express. He was always incredibly supportive and proud of my work with communities at the margins, and his kindness and belief in what I do gave me strength more times than he probably realised. Just this Sunday, he sent me a message with a rose and a heart. Such a simple, gentle gesture ,now one I will hold onto dearly. I never imagined it would be among our last exchanges. I will miss him tremendously. I will miss his warmth, his encouragement, his quiet care, and the beautiful humanity he carried so naturally. People like Uncle Terry leave lasting imprints on the hearts of others not through grand acts, but through everyday compassion, sincerity, and love. May the angels and saints receive him gently at the gates of heaven. May perpetual light shine upon him always, and may he rest in eternal peace.

In Loving Memory of Uncle Terry Some people enter our lives quietly, but leave behind a love and kindness so deep that their absence is felt profoundly. Uncle Terry was one of those people. Over the years, we exchanged greetings, little check-ins, encouragements, and moments of warmth that carried more meaning than words can fully express. He was always incredibly supportive and proud of my work with communities at the margins, and his kindness and belief in what I do gave me strength more times than he probably realised. Just this Sunday, he sent me a message with a rose and a heart. Such a simple, gentle gesture ,now one I will hold onto dearly. I never imagined it would be among our last exchanges. I will miss him tremendously. I will miss his warmth, his encouragement, his quiet care, and the beautiful humanity he carried so naturally. People like Uncle Terry leave lasting imprints on the hearts of others not through grand acts, but through everyday compassion, sincerity, and love. May the angels and saints receive him gently at the gates of heaven. May perpetual light shine upon him always, and may he rest in eternal peace.

Uncle Terry, your vibrant presence, thoughtful wisdom and unconditional support for Aunty Theresa is a beacon of light and a source of happiness, inspiration and comfort to our family Your stories of life are funny yet they always impart a strong meaning - and you do this in your creative way, a way that is uniquely you. I remember the time you brought me to Genting, not long after dad passed away. It was your way in getting me to know a common interest that i may have had with my dad. And you do this time and time again, in bringing people together through your selfless acts of love and camaderie You have said it before, that our loved ones are no longer here because god needed them more in heaven then they do here Uncle Terry, we hope you will join them and now look over us - and that your spirit of unconditional love, energy and thoughtfulness will live on with us.

Photo of my daughter Gowri and I with Terence taken on my birthday in 2010. I have known Terence since my Form 6 days when Lucy and I were classmates. Lucy introduced me to Terence when he was studying for his Masters in the Phillipines. She used to show me postcards from Terence and one day I too received a postcard from Terence. From then on began a warm friendship that has endured all these years. Terence is such a big hearted person who had this ability to make a person feel special. True to his profession he was a great communicator and never failed to keep in touch. His authencity showed in the way he was totally present and never shied away from expressing his love and gratitude. Throughout the years I have experienced his unwavering support like a good cheerleader. I learned a lot from his leadership camps in the early days and started reading motivational books recommended by him. He was a good teacher imparting knowledge about navigating personal and professional life. There are so many warm memories that I will cherish of the good times spent with Terence and Theresa. No words can express how much we will miss him. I am grateful that God was merciful to take him before his condition became worse and thankful that I got to see him and chat with him on Friday, 3 days before he passed away. I know he was ready for his next adventure. Rest in peace dearest Terence.

Dear Uncle Terry, Thank you so much for your memories that we spent together. One of the nicest thing that I remember is that you always say to me is "Hello miss beautiful." You are one of the most loving and kindest person that we ever on know. We will always love you and will miss very much.

Uncle Terry was always full of positivity, laughter, and warmth — forever cheerful and able to make everyone smile. He will be deeply missed

This photo was taken last Christmas, it was the last time I saw Uncle Terrence in person. Though we are not blood related, he and Aunty Teresa have always been family to me and I think of them as my godparents. I have so many fond memories with Uncle Terrence since I was a child. He was caring and joyful and so full of life. One thing I used to tell him is that when I eventually get married someday, I wanted him to officiate the ceremony. I'm sad that dream won't come true, but I know he'll be up there looking out for me. Rest in peace, Uncle Terrence, I will miss and remember you always.

At one of our group dynamics formation camps that we referred to as "Bible Camp" in Port Dickson in the 1970s