
Celebrating the Life of
September 21, 1951 — April 7, 2024
Funeral Director
Sheila Ann Garcia (Schaaf) passed away on April 7, 2024, in Arlington, VA, at the age of 72. Sheila was born on September 21, 1951, in Washington, DC, to William and Mary.
Sheila graduated with honors from Ohio University and subsequently obtained a Master's in Theology from De Sales School of Theology.
She was married to Robert in 1975 at St. Matthew’s Cathedral in Washington, DC. Sheila dedicated nearly 25 years of her life to focusing on issues surrounding Marriage, Family Life, and Youth at the United States Catholic Conference of Bishops (USCCB). Sheila traveled the country
delivering speeches, appearing on radio shows, and publishing articles that reflected her passion for these causes.
Her impact extended beyond her career, as she was known for her kind and caring nature. Described as
a strong matriarch, she touched the lives of many with her charitable spirit and unwavering support.
Sheila found great joy in spending time with her family, sons Matthew and Michael, grandchildren
Jackson, Jemma, George, and Nora, and daughters-in-law Jamila and Jennifer, as well as her beloved
cats Ernest and Dolley Madison.
In her free time, Sheila enjoyed actively fostering and promoting cat adoption, following DC sports teams,
and being a voracious reader. She truly cherished the moments with her grandchildren, sharing in their
sports activities and creating lasting memories.
A Funeral Mass will be held on Monday, April 15th, at 10 AM at St. Ann Catholic Church in Arlington, VA.
The ceremony will be a tribute to Sheila's life and the impact she had on those around her. Columbia
Gardens Cemetery in Arlington, VA, is assisting with the funeral arrangements.
Sheila' s legacy of kindness, dedication, and love will forever be remembered by all who had the privilege
of knowing her. May she rest in peace.
In lieu of flowers donations can be made to The Feline Foundation (https://ffgw.org/donate) or the Lost Dog & Cat Rescue (https://www.lostdogrescue.org/donate-now/).

Monday, April 15, 2024, 10:00 am - 11:00 am Eastern Time
5300 10th St N, Arlington, VA 22205
Funeral Mass at St. Ann Catholic Church https://stannchurch.org/

Monday, April 15, 2024, 11:30 am - 2:00 pm Eastern Time
Lyon Park Community Center Park 414 N Fillmore St, Arlington, VA 22201
All are welcome to join after the Funeral Mass at Lyon Park Community Center Park. https://lyonpark.info
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In celebration of a life so beautifully lived. Your vibrant memory lives on in gentle spirit on us. You will be missed. Love, The Saleh Family

Fr John and Sheila.
I am writing in behalf of my late brother, Fr John Crossin, Sheila’s very good friend. Mike was so kind to contact me. Mike: ‘Friends are a gift from God’. Well, these two friends can now give a big thank you to God for the gift (and renewal) of their friendship! As I said, I only really knew your mom since John’s sudden passing. Of course, he had spoken of her as a good friend over the years when he would visit. It was very apparent during his brief illness how close they were when she texted and called him when he hadn’t responded to her within a few days. I was manning his phone, which was blowing up, and fortunately saw her messages. So it was fortunate that they did get to talk, even if briefly, before he passed. He even managed to thank her for her friendship in one of the few messages he was able to send. They had a very special relationship. I’m also happy I was able to get to know Sheila this past year. She came to Reston in June for lunch with the Oblates when my wife and I were cleaning out John’s room. And she joined our committee working on John’s legacy this past year. She gave me insight into how she thought John would view certain matters as they came before us. And just last week, she contacted John’s former parish in DC about publicizing the Symposium. Even in her sickness, she was still being his friend through me and our partnership with the Oblates! Sheila will certainly be missed but she has earned her eternal reward. May she rest in peace in the Lord. Bob

Sheila and I met through our mutual love of cats volunteering with animal rescue groups. We also discovered our shared appreciation for baseball and had fun together at Nats games. I have fond memories of our ladies group road trip to Pittsburgh where we all enjoyed attending a Pirates game and exploring the city. I am grateful to have known Sheila and always appreciated her inviting and calming presence. My condolences to the family.
Sheila will be remembered as a kind and generous person, celebrating milestones and sending warm wishes to our family during special times. She will be dearly missed. May her memory and kindness continue to live on through her children and grandchildren.
I worked with Sheila at the USCCB. She was a kind and gentle soul and strong in her support of issues she truly cared about. Women in the Church couldn’t have had a better advocate. May she rest in God’s loving embrace and may her memory be a blessing.
Sheila was a wonderful person, a great mom and a kind soul. She will be missed greatly. Sending love and prayers to Bob, Matt, Mike and the rest of her family.
Our deepest sympathies to Sheila’s family. We knew her as a kind, gentle and funny person, both with cats and with people. We admired her willingness to take difficult cat fosters and to meet with potential cat adopters, especially taking on many remote calls during the pandemic. We know that Sheila will be missed by many, and will remember her.
We have known and loved Sheila since the days she was dating Bob, and we also were dating. Bob was fortunate to marry one of the most wonderful girls we knew. Laureen was honored to be a bridesmaid in her wedding. We are sorry we will not be able to attend the service due to a health appointment. Sheila as well as Bob and Matt's and Mike's families remain in our prayers. God bless them all. Laureen and Rich
Something that always struck me about Matt and Mike's mom was her strength and wit both of which her boys have in spades. All our love to the Garcia family & also a nod to a life lived full and a life lived well, full of compassion for others and her community writ large.
My sincere sympathy to Sheila's family at the loss of this good woman. She was a source of wisdom and support during my years with the National Association of Catholic Family Life Ministers. May she test in peace.
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