
Celebrating the Life of
March 9, 1942 — December 20, 2025
In Loving Memory of Phillip Wayne Coffman
March 9, 1942 – December 20, 2025
Phillip Wayne Coffman was born on March 9, 1942, in Los Angeles, California, to Wayne L. Coffman and Frances Pauline (Calvert) Coffman. A gifted mind from an early age, Phillip was accepted into the highest honors courses at Bakersfield High School. Though his mother encouraged him to savor his youth and placed him in college preparatory classes instead, his brilliance was unmistakable—so much so that his brother James fondly described him as “rocket scientist smart.”
Phillip excelled as a cross-country runner and discovered lifelong passions that would define him: the strategic beauty of chess, the joy of reading, and a devotion to learning. His family often likened him to “a beautiful mind,” captivated by ideas and constantly seeking understanding. Over the years, he built a treasured collection of books on religion, nurturing a faith that deepened steadily as his love for Jesus Christ grew. His favorite color was red—a fitting reflection of his spirited personality.
“Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen.” — Hebrews 11:1
Phillip’s life was a testament to perseverance and strength. Through dedication and fellowship in A&A and NAMI, he rebuilt his life with courage and grace. He was approaching a remarkable milestone and would have proudly celebrated 30 years of sobriety on January 1st.
He was generous of heart, and his compassion was evident in his consistent support of worthy causes. Phillip donated when he could, giving quietly and sincerely, never seeking recognition—only hoping to help where help was needed.
On December 20, 2025, Phillip transcended to Heaven, where he is now at peace in the presence of the Lord he so faithfully sought. He is preceded in death by his parents, Wayne and Frances Coffman, and his beloved aunt, Wilrena Calvert-Miller.
He is survived by his brother, James Coffman Sr.; sister-in-law, Martha Coffman; niece, Stormie (Bryon) Beckerle; nephew, James (Tawny) Coffman II; great-nephews, Austyn Beckerle (Laken Moulder) and James Coffman III; and great-nieces, Savanna Beckerle and Gaje Coffman.
The family extends their heartfelt gratitude to Brenda Anderson, Patti, Mario, Jamie, Wendy Morales, Gloria Rodriguez, Josie, and neighbors Brian and Jeffrey. Your care, friendship, and unwavering support were blessings in Phillip’s life, and you are forever appreciated. You each embodied the true meaning of friendship, and he was blessed to have you.
Phillip will be remembered for his gentle intellect, his faith, his generosity, and the quiet strength that carried him through life. He leaves behind a legacy of resilience, curiosity, compassion, and love—and the memory of a beautiful mind and a beautiful soul.
“I tell you that there will be more rejoicing in heaven over one person who turns back to God than over ninety-nine people who believe they have no need to.” — Luke 15:7

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Who knew over 30 years ago when Philip walked into the salon we would embark on such a treasured friendship.Besides my step dad and uncle Red, Phillip was the smartest man I knew.Some of our conversations we're WAY over my head, but I always walked away with something new I had learned,I guess you could say opposites attract,I accepted him for the way he was and he accepted me for the person I was.He loved listening to classical music,not my genre,I asked him once why he liked it,he said it calms his mind,and indeed it does, thank you Philip for the gift of classical music.He was a man of a giving heart and most kind to everyone.I will truly miss you dear friend.Fly high with the Angels,you have found your peace.Love you forever, Brenda

Phil made the paper for his cross country skill
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