Celebrating the Life of
Paul McQueen
February 25, 1956 — November 1, 2025
Obituary
There are some people who can’t help but take life apart just to see how it works.
Who treat the world like something to be studied, tasted, debated, and occasionally disagreed with—just because.
That was Paul James McQueen.
After 46 years side by side, Paul leaves behind his wife and partner in life Jane, who shared in his love of country living, travel and music.
He was the proud Dad of Tasha (and her partner, Cole) and Tarley (and her partner, Lucius), and the endlessly adored Pop Pop of Frankie, Ronan, and Sully.
Paul loved dragons, guitars, good food, and feeding people in every sense of the word. He was patient with things that took time: gardens, ideas, and people. He questioned everything, not to argue, but to understand.
A little stubborn, deeply curious, and quietly full of wonder, Paul lived life his own way, finding beauty in the small, overlooked corners of the world and passing that gift on to all of us.
Services
Memorial Service (In-Person)
Saturday, November 8, 2025, 1:00 pm - 4:00 pm Eastern Time
Doghouse Studios, 99 Dairy Ave, Napanee, ON K7R 1M5, Canada
Come and join us as we Celebrate Paul's Life. We plan to share stories of Paul starting at 2:30 pm. For those who have something they would like share, please contact Cole @ 613-539-5562 or email [email protected]. Please don't worry about RSVPing, not required we would love to see anyone who knew and cared for Paul.
Memories and Condolences
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I met Paul for the first time when I was in Undergrad and went to a house party at one of Tasha and Cole’s student houses. I remember being so blown away that this cool parent/grown up was partying with us while also making me feel like I was being brought into the fold. As a student who didn’t see her own parents much at the time, it felt wonderful. Over the years since then, I’ve loved seeing Paul become the most awesome grandparent. He will be so missed, by family and all those he made feel like part of the family. All my love to Tasha, Jane, Tarley, and the kids 💚
Heartfelt condolences, Jane, to you and your family. Liz and Kim
Paul, You and Jane have always made me feel like part of the family, just as you’ve done for so many others over the years. Your approach to life was always refreshing, curious, and deeply genuine - some of my most favourite things about you. Thank you for being you, and for raising such amazing people who carry your light forward. You will be deeply missed and always remembered. With love - the Jamro’s
Jane and family. Audrey and I are so sorry for your loss. God bless.
Always the highlight of the summer, when cousin Paul would come down to NB for a visit. My deepest condolences to Jane and his children and grandchildren. He will certainly be missed.
So sorry, Jane, for your loss. Sharon & Richard
Jane, Tarley, Tasha, Cole, Frankie, Ronan, and Sully—my heart is aching for all of you. My impression of Paul was a generous host, a creative soul and most importantly, a doting father and grandfather. Thinking of you all as you will be missing your sweet Pop-pop.
Jane and family, Thinking of you and your family with deepest sympathy as you mourn the loss of a beloved husband and father. Wishing you strength and comfort in the days ahead. Rob & Jeanne
Jane, no words can express my sympathy for you and your family with the loss of your partner in life, Paul. I would have come by to see you Saturday but unfortunately will be out of town. Take good care and all the best Jane, Tori
Jane so sorry to hear about Paul our hearts are with you and the children . wish we could be there we loved Paul and always looked forward to his visits , and the rocks he would bring back to us , he will be missed hugs to you all and many Prayers , love you Uncle Frank and Aunt Faye <3
He never missed my birthday parties! Such an amazing human I got share some space with for a time! I hope your quests never end my friend xo
Condolences to Jane and the family. Fond memories of you and Paul and his infectious laugh and smile
I was on my lunch break at work when I read the news, and I was completely shocked, stunned, and heartbroken. I can’t believe he’s gone. My heart aches for you Tasha, and family. I’ll never forget the first time I met him at the summer party. He was so excited to show me his dragon collection because he thought I might appreciate it since I’m Asian, lol. He asked me what kinds of dragons I knew from my country, and I had to laugh and tell him that I actually didn’t know any growing up. He just smiled so kindly, that’s how I’ll always remember him: warm, curious, and full of life.
Well then. Now he understands Bell's Theorem and I am still struggling. Lots of thoughts. Few words. Love to you all. Jane
My sincere condolences to Jane and the whole family. Paul was a good man, taken from us too soon. May he rest in peace. John Johnston.
Dear Jane and family I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts during this sad time. Eileen
Communing with dragons
Fun at the summer party celebrating the 80s!
Celebrating our pirate ship on Willingdon being completed!!!
Jane, we were so sorry to hear about Paul..Wishing we were around to give you a big hug. Take care of yourself and your family and know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Jane and family, So sorry to learn of your and your family’s loss. Warmest condolences from our family to yours.
Jane and family my thoughts are with u in this sad time. Hopefully u are all doing well And are taking care of my brothers last wishes.
Dear Jane and family - Our sincerest condolences on Paul's passing. You are all in our thoughts.
Our deepest condolences to Jane and her family during this difficult time. Michele & David Proctor
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