Celebrating the Life of
MRS. GRACE ADAYILO (MAMA AFRICA)
December 12, 1965 — September 1, 2025
Obituary
Dear Family, Friends, Management, and Staff of FCT,
As we come together to remember our beloved Mama Africa, Grace Adayilo, I invite you to share your cherished memories of her on this website. Mama Africa was an extraordinary woman who broke barriers as the first female and indigenous person from the FCT to serve as Head of Service, FCT. Her leadership, kindness, and unwavering dedication to our community have left an indelible mark on all of us.
I will forever cherish the laughter, wisdom, and love she shared with everyone around her. Let’s honor her legacy by celebrating the beautiful moments we shared and the profound impact she had on our lives.
Thank you for being part of this journey of remembrance.
With Love,
Dr. Jumai Ahmadu.
Memories and Condolences
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Words can never truly capture the depth of my love and gratitude for my mother, nor the pain of losing her. She was not only my mother but also my teacher, my confidant, and my closest friend. She was more than a parent; she was my guide, my comfort, and my greatest supporter. Her gentle words, selfless sacrifices, and unwavering faith shaped the person I am today. My mother was the first to show me what unconditional love truly means. Her life was a constant sacrifice, and her joy came from seeing those around her happy and thriving. She carried herself with dignity, yet her humility shone through in every act of service. To everyone who crossed her path, she was a source of comfort, wisdom, and warmth. She taught me resilience in times of difficulty, humility in times of success, and compassion in every circumstance. She had a unique gift of making people feel seen and valued. Whether through her gentle words, her encouraging smile, or her tireless care, my mother left an imprint on hearts that can never be erased. She was strong in times of trial, calm in moments of uncertainty, and full of faith even when life was difficult. From her, I learned that love is shown not only in grand gestures but also in the quiet, everyday sacrifices that often go unnoticed. Her presence filled our home with peace and her laughter was like music that lifted our spirits. She was the anchor of our family, the one who taught us resilience, patience, and the importance of standing together. Even in her silence, she spoke volumes — her life itself was a lesson in kindness, perseverance, and grace. Though words cannot fully capture what she meant to me, I know that my mother’s legacy lives on. It lives in the values she instilled in me, in the faith she nurtured, and in the countless lives she touched. While her absence leaves a deep void, her memory gives me strength, and her love will continue to guide me through the journey of life. I will miss you soo much Rest well, dearest Mum. You were my greatest blessing, and I will carry your love in my heart forever. Favour Adayilo (Daughter)
Words can never truly capture the depth of my love and gratitude for my mother, nor the pain of losing her. She was not only my mother but also my teacher, my confidant, and my closest friend. She was more than a parent; she was my guide, my comfort, and my greatest supporter. Her gentle words, selfless sacrifices, and unwavering faith shaped the person I am today. My mother was the first to show me what unconditional love truly means. Her life was a constant sacrifice, and her joy came from seeing those around her happy and thriving. She carried herself with dignity, yet her humility shone through in every act of service. To everyone who crossed her path, she was a source of comfort, wisdom, and warmth. She taught me resilience in times of difficulty, humility in times of success, and compassion in every circumstance. She had a unique gift of making people feel seen and valued. Whether through her gentle words, her encouraging smile, or her tireless care, my mother left an imprint on hearts that can never be erased. She was strong in times of trial, calm in moments of uncertainty, and full of faith even when life was difficult. From her, I learned that love is shown not only in grand gestures but also in the quiet, everyday sacrifices that often go unnoticed. Her presence filled our home with peace and her laughter was like music that lifted our spirits. She was the anchor of our family, the one who taught us resilience, patience, and the importance of standing together. Even in her silence, she spoke volumes — her life itself was a lesson in kindness, perseverance, and grace. Though words cannot fully capture what she meant to me, I know that my mother’s legacy lives on. It lives in the values she instilled in me, in the faith she nurtured, and in the countless lives she touched. While her absence leaves a deep void, her memory gives me strength, and her love will continue to guide me through the journey of life. I will miss you soo much Rest well, dearest Mum. You were my greatest blessing, and I will carry your love in my heart forever. Favour Adayilo (Daughter)
Words can never truly capture the depth of my love and gratitude for my mother, nor the pain of losing her. She was not only my mother but also my teacher, my confidant, and my closest friend. She was more than a parent; she was my guide, my comfort, and my greatest supporter. Her gentle words, selfless sacrifices, and unwavering faith shaped the person I am today. My mother was the first to show me what unconditional love truly means. Her life was a constant sacrifice, and her joy came from seeing those around her happy and thriving. She carried herself with dignity, yet her humility shone through in every act of service. To everyone who crossed her path, she was a source of comfort, wisdom, and warmth. She taught me resilience in times of difficulty, humility in times of success, and compassion in every circumstance. She had a unique gift of making people feel seen and valued. Whether through her gentle words, her encouraging smile, or her tireless care, my mother left an imprint on hearts that can never be erased. She was strong in times of trial, calm in moments of uncertainty, and full of faith even when life was difficult. From her, I learned that love is shown not only in grand gestures but also in the quiet, everyday sacrifices that often go unnoticed. Her presence filled our home with peace and her laughter was like music that lifted our spirits. She was the anchor of our family, the one who taught us resilience, patience, and the importance of standing together. Even in her silence, she spoke volumes — her life itself was a lesson in kindness, perseverance, and grace. Though words cannot fully capture what she meant to me, I know that my mother’s legacy lives on. It lives in the values she instilled in me, in the faith she nurtured, and in the countless lives she touched. While her absence leaves a deep void, her memory gives me strength, and her love will continue to guide me through the journey of life. I will miss you soo much Rest well, dearest Mum. You were my greatest blessing, and I will carry your love in my heart forever. Favour Adayilo (Daughter)
Mom loved without condition. It didn’t matter if someone hurt her, she always looked the other way and loved the person in spite of what they had done. And she loved with her whole heart. Her love was never forced, it was just always there – no matter what. She loved us like no one else could – and it was a strong, genuine love. As her life came to a close, I realized that no matter how much she told me she loved me, she couldn't put it into words - her love was so great. Victor
Aunty Grace, words fail me as I try to accept the shocking news of your sudden passing. It has been difficult to write this tribute, the moments we shared can write more than a book, there’s so much to say from the bottom of my heart but I have to leave space for others. You saw me as a close confidant in every aspect of your life, you discussed everything with me. The memories of you telling me everyday, “Betty, you’re an angel sent from God”, “Betty, you’re my angel, you’re an eagle, you are different” keeps ringing in my head. I still cannot believe that you are gone. It feels like a dream I am yet to wake up from. The memories of our calls during the late hours of the night, be it midnight or 3am to discuss pressing private matters. Just a week before you came to the office waiting for two hours, you still put a call through, I didn’t realise the curtains were drawing to a close. You were always thoughtful, always caring. You valued every moment, and you loved selflessly. I am extremely blessed with the moments I had with you. I will miss you forever. Your beloved children you left behind, I will always see your face in them. You were a true child of God You are missed, I really miss you. Thank you, I bless God for making our paths cross. Thank you for the memories, for the prayers, for the love, and for the life you lived so beautifully. Your legacy of faith, kindness, and generosity will live on in our hearts forever. Rest well in the bosom of the Lord, Aunty. We will miss you deeply. - Dr. Mrs Betty Olutunde
It is with a heavy heart that I write this, Mama Africa, a cherished Amazing mother who gives listening ears to anyone who comes across her, thank you for all you do for us your advice of standing firm in faith and being patient your impact was greatly felt your care and support to everyone will forever remain fresh in our memories you were an inspiration to millions of people around the world, and a faithful servant of God, we celebrate your amazing life and lasting legacy. You passed of natural causes, peacefully. You did all your best to reclaim a great wonderful love mandate, May your soul find a resting place with God Almighty Shalom. (Mama sai yi La gbei) Rest easy ma, You will be greatly missed mother of all. From Grace Enenche FCT ARDS FCTA
Mama Africa, your home calling by our creator was a rude shock to many. A colossal lost to the Gbagyi nation and to the indigenous people of FCT. You came as a pillar of hope, full of zeal and passion for your people. To service you were called with dreams unfulfilled death cut you off leaving us as orphans. Yet, I know with your demise , God will not leave us comfortless. Your legacy will stirred up more of your types to rise for the emancipation of your people. Rest on at the feet of the Lord. Till we come.
Mrs. Grace Adayilo, the first female and indigenous Head of Service of the Federal Capital Territory (FCT), passed away on September 1, 2025. She was a trailblazer in her field, breaking both gender and geographical barriers within the FCT administration. Her appointment as FCT Head of Service was approved by President Bola Tinubu in October 2024. Some notable aspects of her career. - Philanthropic Efforts: Known fondly as "Mama Africa," Adayilo was revered for her deep compassion for the people and her philanthropic efforts across Nigeria. - Leadership Style: Her leadership was rooted in a profound love for humanity and a dedication to creating a better society for all, irrespective of gender, age, or background. - Administrative Expertise: Adayilo demonstrated unparalleled administrative expertise throughout her career, previously serving as a Permanent Secretary in the Ministry of Agriculture and Director of Gender at the FCT Social Development Secretariat. - Legacy: Her tenure as Head of Service was expected to bring positive transformation to Nigeria's public administration, continuing her legacy of service and dedication to national progress. Adayilo's passing marks a significant loss for the FCT Civil Service and the Nation. Dr Aregbesola Babatunde
Mama Africa is simply a woman with the heart of a mother. When I heard about her demis I was broken to say the least. I only met her once the very first day she visited my station, Kubwa Abattoir. Irrespective of her class and position, Mama Africa gave all the staff listening audience, gave us words of advice, gave us ideas and solutions regarding work and life in general. She is a very considerate person, humane and kind-hearted. Death always go for the best and indeed her demise is a living proof that death actually goes for the best because Mama Africa is indeed the best in her capacity. Everybody keeps speaking and saying lots of good things about her because she is full of good thoughts and actions. She impacted humanity in her little way and I pray she receives her deserved reward in heaven. Eze Sunday
Tribute to Late Mrs. Adayilo Grace A Trailblazing Leader, she was. I remember Mrs. Adayilo Grace, the pioneering female and indigenous Head of Service of the Federal Capital Territory, as a shining example of dedication, perseverance, and excellence. Her remarkable journey left an indelible mark on the lives of many. She lived a life well spent serving God and humanity, and her legacy of empowerment is so exceptional. Mrs. Adayilo Grace's legacy extends far beyond her impressive career milestones. She empowered countless individuals, especially women, to pursue their goals and aspirations. Her leadership and mentorship inspired a generation of public servants. Her impact on the FCT Community. As Head of Service, Mrs. Adayilo Grace worked tirelessly to improve the lives of FCT residents, her commitment to public service and community development earned her the respect and admiration of her peers and the people she served. Her personal qualities while alive includes: -Diligence -Compassion -kindness and empathy -Inspiration. I grew to hear much of Mama Africa, but I came to interface with her only when she became PERM SEC. So, celebrating her life is something we love to do because of her lifestyle. I celebrate Mrs. Adayilo Grace's Mama Africa life, legacy, and contributions to the FCT community. Her memory will continue to inspire and motivate us to strive for greatness. May her legacy live on, and may we continue to draw inspiration from her remarkable life and achievements.
Cool, Calm, Calculated, yet Courageous. I will really miss your support and encouragement. Obrike, C. M. (Mrs.) DSMAM
Destiny brought me close to Mama Africa in Sept. 2021 when she was posted to Gender Dept as Director. She was so kind, passionate and emphathetic. We worked together so closely until the relationship grew beyond official to personal. Not looking at me as a small boy, she relate with me in a special way, tell me everything and wish me grow in the service. The two encounters my wife had to meet Mama Africa increased my value at home. The way Mama Africa embraced my wife with hug and kiss showed the value she had for me and since then, the way my wife reacted when I come back from work late changed. Since then, whenever I come back home earlier than expected, my wife will ask about Mama Africa and why I left early. Exactly two weeks to her death, I and Dearest was in her house. We were served plenty Irish potatoes and we ate the little we could eat. Mama Africa came to join us and started eating the remaining from the same plate and the same spoon we used.
This is the hardest and the most painful thing that I have ever written. There is a musical chair of memories playing on the screen of my mind as I type this. From my earliest memories of Mama Africa as a young boy growing up in Dutsepe to the proud moments of experiencing her bulldoze her way as a technocrat and the high hopes that I had for the people of the FCT after she resumed office as the Head of Service, I witnessed so much that I forgot she was human. She was full of life and such an incurable optimist that no one around her could imagine life without her. I was with her on that fateful Sunday evening. She was interceding on my behalf, like she’s always done. Later, in the wee hours of Monday, I was called upon to take her to the hospital. Unfortunately, that trip ended at the mortuary where we deposited her body. Her life was a sermon and she continues to preach to us even in death. Mrs. Grace Adayilo was a detribalized patriot and a mother to everyone which earned her the moniker “Mama Africa”. Death might have ended her journey here on earth, but the relationships she built and left behind shall outlive us all. Mama Africa lived a life worthy of emulation and she shall be remembered for that for generations to come. We deeply miss her and pray to God to raise people who will continue on the path that she was on. Adieu, my big sister Mama Africa.
Tribute to Mrs. Grace Adayilo Distinguished colleagues, ladies and gentlemen, Today, we celebrate the life and legacy of a remarkable leader—Ms. Grace Adayilo, fondly known to all as Mama Africa. She was more than a Head of Service; she was the heart and soul of the FCTA family. Mama Africa worked tirelessly, leading with integrity, compassion, and discipline. She inspired us through her humility and motherly care, ensuring that every staff member felt valued and respected. Her dedication and selflessness shaped the FCTA into a stronger, more united institution. Though she may no longer be with us physically, her legacy of excellence, fairness, and humanity will continue to guide us for generations to come. May her soul rest in perfect peace. Dr. Baba-Gana Adam Permanent Secretary, Health Services and Environment Secretariat, FCTA
TRIBUTE TO MAMA AFRICA Dr. Grace Adayilo aka Mama Africa, epitomized a true manliness of strength, a force, while she lived; exemplified—through quiet and dogged determination, unwavering, assertive, yet supportive, steady and hands-on. In silence, she spoke volumes, and loud when declaring her position for the GOD she served while here. Constant in love and dependable, like the sun rising each morning. Her departure is a sudden Sunset at Dawn experience on the 1st day of September 2025 Whether fixing things around the house or sharing a knowing glance at the dinner table, she represented well, she made us feel safe around her, seen, and loved. She was the one we turned to when things went wrong—and the first we wanted to share good news with. Though she may no longer be at the table with us, her work presence remains in every story told, every lesson remembered, every act of kindness passed on. This is a small reflection of the life she lived and the love she gave. A true mother, through and through, she may be gone, but she will always be in our memory, in spirit and in heart.
We mourn the passing of Mrs. Grace Adayilo, the first indigenous and female Head of Service of the Federal Capital Territory Administration, a trailblazer whose life exemplified service to God, to country, and to humanity. Fondly known as Mama Africa, she was more than a public servant; she was a servant of the people. Through her women’s group, Yeyedu, she championed the empowerment of women in underserved communities. Together with interventions from Helpline Social Support Initiative Abuja, she supported skills training, access to healthcare, and initiatives that restored hope and dignity to many families. Her passion for uplifting women, her commitment to social justice, and her abiding faith in God made her a beacon of inspiration. She gave her strength to others, her wisdom to her colleagues, and her love to her community. As we remember her, we celebrate a life of impact, compassion, and service. Her legacy of faith, leadership, and empowerment will continue to inspire and guide us. May the Almighty grant her eternal rest and comfort all who mourn her passing.
We shall really miss you! We can't question God because He understands it better.has. We pray to meet on that resurrection morning and depart no more.
Tribute To An Iroko, A Woman of Substance And An Accomplished Civil Servant The news of your demise came with a great shock to those of us who were privileged to relate with you while you lived. It was most devastating remembering what you stood for, a woman of peace, a preacher of the gospel, someone who believed in a more United a Nigeria by shunning tribalism and religious bigotry while discharging her official duties. You were indeed MAMA AFRICA by the attributes you exhibited while at the helm of affairs of Federa Capital Territory Civil Service. You demonstrated a rare quality, gave hope and worthy sense of belonging to many who were marginalised. I have no doubt that you are now resting in the bosom of our creator. I pray the good Lord grant your aged mother and other members of your immediate family the fortitude to bear the irreparable loss. Rest in peace MAMA AFRICA. From the family of Opara Eze.L.
There is no easy way to grief, and your death has shown this in many ways by the outpouring of grief. You were a remarkable human and lived for others. May your soul find eternal rest. May your family and friends find comfort in your legacy and God's love.
Today, we celebrate the life of a true icon—Dr. Grace Adayilo, fondly called Mama Africa. A woman of worth. A woman of excellence. A woman who embodied strength, grace, and selflessness. Mummy Grace was a vision in action. Her passion for humanity was unmatched. She was hardworking, relentless, and unstoppable when it came to achieving her goals—especially those that would bring hope and transformation to communities. She believed that one person could make a difference, and she lived that belief every single day. Her life was a beautiful testimony of service, sacrifice, and impact. She gave her all, not for recognition, but because she truly cared. Her heart beat for others, and she carried everyone along with love and wisdom. To us at Women of Worth, Mummy Grace was a pillar—a gem of inestimable value. Her commitment to uplifting women, empowering lives, and fostering unity will never be forgotten. She was Mama Africa indeed—bold, beautiful, and powerful in purpose. Her legacy continues to shine brightly. We will carry forward her vision, her passion, and her spirit of excellence. Rest on, our beloved Mama Africa. You have run your race well, and your crown of glory awaits you. We love you, and we will miss you deeply. -Women of Worth Global Group
The motherly advice she gave to all the staff who sat for last CBT examination for the position of Directors is still fresh in my memory. She had so much empathy for humanity. May God accept her soul and grant fortitude to the family she left 🙏
2nd September, 2025 CONDOLENCE MESSAGE TO THE Family, Church Members, and Children of Late Pioneer Head Of Service, Pastor Mrs. Grace Adayilo. To All concerned; It is with a heavy heart that we as the Provincial Pastors of Province 21 & The Throneroom parish RCCG @Transcorp Hilton, write to express our deepest condolences on the painful passing of your beloved matriarch, Mrs. Grace Adayilo. Her life was a testament to faith, love, and service, and her impact will forever be etched in the hearts of all who knew her. To you her family, please know that her legacy of unwavering kindness, wisdom, and strength lives on in each of you. She was a pillar of love and devotion, and the values she instilled will continue to guide and inspire you. May you find comfort in the cherished memories you shared and in the knowledge that she touched so many lives with her grace. To you her church family, Pastor Grace Adayilo, your General Overseer, was a beacon of faith and a steadfast servant of the Lord. Her dedication to the church and her community was evident in all she did. Her faithfulness in prayer, her compassion, and her willingness to serve have left a profound mark that will not be forgotten. To you her children, your mother’s love was her greatest gift to you. She nurtured you with care, guided you with wisdom, and prayed for you with a heart full of hope. Carry forward her legacy with pride, knowing that she will always be with you in spirit. Together with you all we mourn her loss, we also celebrate a life well-lived—a life that glorified God and uplifted others. May the peace of Christ, which surpasses all understanding, guard your hearts and minds during this difficult time. Please know that you are in our prayers. May God’s comfort and strength sustain you, and may Mrs. Grace Adayilo’s memory be a source of blessing and encouragement to all. With deepest sympathy, Pastors Olatunde & Adedayo Benjamins-Laniyi Pastors-in-Charge, RCCG Throne Room & FCT Province 21
“Today I honour and remember a life that touched us all. Though no words can truly capture the depth of our love and loss, I stand here grateful for the memories we carry. Mrs. Grace Adayilo, aka (MAMA AFRICA), showed us kindness, gave us joy, and left behind lessons that will guide us for the rest of our lives. Her presence may be gone, but her spirit will always remain in our hearts. As we say goodbye, we do not only mourn the loss—we celebrate a life well lived, a life that brought light into ours. May her soul rest in peace.”
In Loving Memory of Dr. Grace Adayilo , Mama Africa I received with shocked the news of your demised after watching your live message on Sunday few hours after. Mama our leadership, guidance, and mentorship left an indelible mark on my life and my hearts. Your legacy will live on through the countless lives you touched and the impact you made. Your kindness, empathy, and understanding made you a beloved leader. You will be deeply missed, but your memory will continue to inspire me. May your soul rest in peace 😭😭
My hearty condolence to the family of our dear mother. She was an exemplary person, full of love and compassion for people. The church misses you dearly but we know you are with the Lord. Your good works will surely speak for you on that day and you'll be rewarded accordingly. Adieu mama Africa.
