Marlowe Ramirez

As Marlowes aide at school for 4th grade and 5th grade she taught me so much about how to move through life with grace. We’d sit together for hours, and the awareness she and I had for each other is something I will always treasure. There was a sturdiness in her being and a softness too. When someone embraces the level of depth and complexity she embraced in her life being in their presence is the experience of fullness and vibrancy. The way Marlowe accepted her life challenges didn’t mean she pretended her life was “perfect” or that she stop “wanting” things; it just means that she let it all coexist. She allowed herself to feel sad and joy both in the same day. She allowed herself to feel satisfaction and frustration, she allowed it all. Where ever she was and whatever was happening and what she loved and what she wanted and what she lacked. Because she was there with it all she invited those in her presence to be there for it too. The passage of time spend together with her was sweet and peaceful. There was no shortage of good days. I’m so grateful for the many hours I was gifted to experience her spirit, be nourished by her smile and learn from her many wells of wisdom. “There is no shortage of good days. It is good lives that are hard to come by. A life of good days lived in the senses is not enough. The life of sensation is the life of greed; it requires more and more. The life of the spirit requires less and less; time is ample and its passage sweet.” ~ Annie Dillard

I had the pleasure of watching her ride for the last time assisted. You loved this therapy. Now you are riding unassisted wind in your hair. You taught us all so much about love and perseverance. You never gave up my sweet buttercup. So many beautiful memories you shared with me. Your smile and sweet spirit was infectious. You will always life in my heart. I know you are using all the tears we have shed for you and God collects in clay jars to water all the flowers in heaven. I love and miss you but I know I will be with you again someday. Grandma Sparkles.

Marlowe taught me to find the MAGIC in everything. The joy shared by Mar was inspiring and lifted the spirits of so many who knew her. After spending time with Marlowe, I always felt happier and more grateful for all things in my life. So often, I would reflect on how I could try to continue to uplift others. She insisted on celebrating everything with her whole heart. I will forever celebrate her and the magic she taught me to seek.

My Dear Rett Sister- Mars Oh how I miss you. We shared many Halloweens together, for who didn't like to dress up and pretend you were someone different for a night. For on those nights we could pretend Rett wasn't part of our world. We had so much in common: Wheelchairs for legs, siblings for laughs, aids, family, and friends who push us, grandparents that love us beyond words. Wacky dads that share their daring adventures and do scary antics with us that we both openly love. The ability to sleep anywhere or not at all. Pain that ambushed us. Sicknesses that hung around longer. Hands that wouldn't allow us to hug or pet our dogs without help. More therapy than fun. The love of snow and speed. You kept me smiling. You were an anchor, rock, and example. My smile now is that you have earned your wings- you are untethered from this world. You are flying high in a place without Rett. You have your legs- run hard and fast for me. Kick balls, ride skateboards, and skip. You have your hands- touch and pick flowers, paint, and make music. Eat all the amazing food you missed out on. Use your voice to sing to the clouds, share stories, and tell jokes. Ride your horse bare back with wild abandon with your hair flying behind you like the beautiful wild girl you are. I love you Mars, my whole family does. I miss you terribly, but know that you are happy living a life without Rett. Come visit me in my dreams and whisper encouragement in my ears. Keep on keeping on and experience all that you can, so when it is my turn you can show me the way. Much love- Lucy Heimburger (and her whole family too)

My dearest, sweetest Mar. My heart soars every time I think of you, and of all the love you shared. Your smiles were contagious, your laugh full of joy, your excitement for adventure; your beautiful blue eyes told it all. You have taught us all to live our lives to the fullest regardless of our circumstances. One of my favorite memories were all the Eskimo kisses we shared.

Marlowe…we have loved you since the day you came into our lives and we will love you forever 💜💜💜

Michael, Shoshanna, please know that your family near and far will continue to gather to pray for you guys and hold 🙏❤️MARLOWE ❤️🙏 in our hearts and prayers. It’s interesting that she passed during Passover when the Israelites were released from bondage. 🙏❤️MARLOWE ❤️🙏 too has been released to the heavens, and God will use her as an angel to watch over us just as you have taken loving care of her. We love you all!

My favorite memory of you is going to the La Zoo and seeing all the animals. You always had such a beautiful bright smile. You will be truly missed but I know you are singing and dancing your heart out and riding all the horses. Love you sweet Marlowe. Love auntie Mae Mae

I love that Marlowe favorite animal is horses just like me and we both love music especially Taylor Swift!!!

My beautiful Marlowe, there so many memories I have of us all together adventuring in Mammoth, Thanksgivings, 4th of July parades, walks with Mommy, me, Barley and Coopie. One memory I have that stands out was the time you “dove” head first into Hidden Lake, lol! You were promptly lifted up and we dried your buns in the Sun….suns out buns out girl! You are in our hearts embedded forever. I can’t wait until we are reunited in heaven, and I get to hear your voice, and see you run! You are my blue eyed Snow White! We love you forever! Love Auntie CC, Uncle Chris, Logan, and Evan…and Coopie!🩵🦋🩵🦋🩵🦋😘😘😘😘😘

Marlowe, I love how adventuress you are!!!!!!! We have had so much fun together like snowmobiling, riding the ATV, watching you do wheelies on the skateboarding ramp with your wheel chair and much more!!! I love you so much!! Love Landon

Love you my Lil Speed Demon!

Marlowe, I am so honored to be your auntie. We have all loved you since the day you were born. I will always be grateful for the love you showed everyone from day one. You are the strongest and bravest girl I have ever met. You touched the hearts of all your family and friends by your smiles and your loving eyes. I love most of all the love you showed for your family!!! I love you, auntie Mel

My very favorite memory of Mar was at our wedding. She was getting ready with all the girls in the bridal area. The WHOLE time Mar was staring at me with a huge smile on her face. Every time I looked at her- there she was smiling. I cried once on our wedding day. It was with everything Mar said with her eyes and that bright smile. Our sweet girl had a way of making you feel appreciated and loved. Marlowe you will forever be apart of all of us, each in our own special way. Each of our memories combined builds a beautiful picture of your wonderful self. I love you baby girl!

Your infectious laugh will always be music to my heart and soul. I Love you MarsyBoo!